
I Won’t Let My Stepdaughter Share a Room With My Son Anymore / Bright Side
“Hello, Bright side!
Well, a deep breath. I (42f) I have a 15 -year -old son, Josh. I also have my 16 -year -old daughter, Chloe, from my ex -husband’s marriage. My husband and I have divorced me for years, and I ended up raising Josh alone. She got married a few years ago, when Chloe entered the picture. You live with us full time.
Recently, we started some major renovations in the back half of the house, including a kidney bedroom. A long short story, the only option for Chloe and Josh was temporarily sharing a room – two separate beds, a large space between them, and strict borders. I was not pleased, but they always had a dynamic -like dynamic.
Good. This has changed two days ago.
I went to the joint room to put some clean laundry, and opened the lingerie drawer in Chloe (because this is the place where its socks are kept – not intrusion, sweetened), and what do I find?
Very expensive Rolex watch.
Initially, I thought it might have been fake. Or maybe you found it. But this thing seemed TRUE. I immediately faced her – she tried to play stupid, and she was confused about her, then she was upset, then suddenly emotional. In the end, after a lot of urgency, it is finally Acknowledge where he came from.
It turns out, My ex -husbandJosh’s father – gave her Rolex. He said it is a gift for the upcoming birthday of Josh. He asked her to pass it along.
Context: Josh He does not talk to his father. We are both piece For years because this man has earned good money, but he has never given ten cents to Josh, even for the basic needs. When Josh grew up, he began to protect him with gifts, trying to buy him with his generosity. We worked hard to keep Josh away from the orbit of that man.
renal custom All this. Until you once told me how you don’t trust it.
I was surprised. I literally accepted something from the only person we all agreed to stay away from. It infiltrates it at home. she to lie Around it. Worse than all of this – she was ready to involve Josh in a relationship with his terrible father, even if he was indirect.
I don’t think she fully understands the danger of that man. Or may you do, and do not care.
I told her that she could not share a room with Josh anymore. I don’t care if it is temporary. I don’t care if the renovations are not accomplished. I move the bed to my office. Josh gets his area. a period.
She cried. He said I was dramatic. It was just an hour, she did not mean harm, and did not go by selling it. But the damage occurs. She crossed huge borders and put Josh at risk – even if she was unintentionally. I took my confidence in it seriously, and I will not only ignore it.
I still care Chloe. But from now on, there will be strict limits. And you will have to work to gain this confidence – because this? This was Not okay. Now, I don’t even know how to build my additional relationship with her. What should I do? “
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