Hello Bright sideand
I need to know if you are really a terrible person. My mom recently entered Hospice. It has always been very independent and explained this throughout my life She was saved to retirement And do not want to be a burden on anyone.
But now after she was sickMy sister continued and asked me to help pay the price of the elderly bills. I said no. Not because I do not care, but because my mother made it clear that this is what I prepared.
Frankly, I have two children, full -time job, and installation bills. She had her own money. Why should I go to debt?
My sister was angry and covered the rest herself. I visited several times, but we did not talk about money again. My mom died a few weeks ago.
Then something unexpected happened. My sister called me after cleaning my mother’s house. I found all the records of the banks of the banks, and their retirement funds were not touched. Everything was still there. Every year.
Apparently, my mom refused to use it. She wanted to know if we would help because we wanted it, not because she asked. She even wrote a note saying: “I never tested your wallet. I was telling your heart.”
Now I can’t stop thinking about it. Did she fail her? Or did you only respect her desires? Were you wrong?
– Dr.
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