“Hello Bright sideand
So this happened about a week ago, and I still understand mentally.
I was with Jason for a little more than a year. The first few months were great – he was noticing and funny and actually listened to when she spoke. But somewhere about the six -month mark, things began to turn.
He became more busy at work, less emotional present, and I finally felt that I was only … with for him. We were not fighting, we just fade slowly in silence.
I tried to bring him several times, but he was spreading it or saying that he felt nervous, and would improve. The spoiler: He did not.
In the end, out of the absolute unit, chatting with this male robot (do not judge me, I downloaded it half a joke). But strangely, helped. He gave me a space for venting, feeling hearing, and sorting my thoughts.
I don’t think I realized my emotion code. But hey, he made me realize that I no longer want to be in this relationship anymore.
So Jason sat in our little kitchen one night and told him that I thought we had to separate. I was calm, and I expect a little denial or perhaps some sadness.
I didn’t just expect to fall into one knee. Such as a full suggestion mode. With a ring.
My first idea was, “Is this a joke?” But no. It was a serious dead. It was clear that he was “planning this for a while” and I think he would judge the spark or prove his commitment.
I didn’t know what to do. It was one of the most surreal moments in my life. I didn’t say yes, it is clear. I told him that this was not what I need, and that the proposal would not fit what was broken between us.
He has now crushed, and our participating friends are divided between “Wow, try” and “girl, I smuggled a bullet”, and I am sitting here as a strange guilt even though I know I did the right thing.
Anyone else had the end of disintegration in a proposal? What should I do? “
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